Talking about missing opportunities and seizing chances make me
wonder. There is always moments in our
life when we think back to a certain point in time and tell ourselves that we should
have done something. Most of the time, we choose to move passed it because we
said to ourselves, ‘life must goes on’ and sometimes it too regretful that
makes we wish every night we could go back in time and change it.
Regret is a difficult thing to have in our life because we can never really
get rid of it. Even the people who
manage to redeem themselves, whatever they do now doesn’t change the fact that
they didn’t do it before. Life does not
have a remote control. There is no
rewind, delete, and restart.
I have missed my late-grandmother (from my father’s side) very much
since she was gone on May 06, 2007.It been almost six years now but it feel
just like yesterday when I talked to her or having an argument with her and
then we going cool, back together. Days I
regret: Never having said what should’ve been said, while I had the time, while
she was still alive.
And I’m not ready to losing another one right now. In fact, I will never ready for the rest of
my life. My grandfather (from my mother’s
side), has been in hospital for a long while now and every time I come to invited
him, I practically can’t control myself from not bursting into tears. I still
try to cope with this situation and I have been listening to ‘My Love like a
Star’ for a while now too. It seems look
like the most terrible idea; choosing a sad song as my motivation to stay
strong but as for me, it’s work because my love for him just like the way it
say in the song. Days I regret: I never have said what could’ve been said while
I had his ear, while he was still near.
Regret can be devastating because it can mean you kill the potential
of something else happening, something you may later realize you wanted but by
then it’s too late.
So guys, don’t ever missing the opportunities and seizing the chances.
